
Before going on the cruise of the Hawaiian islands, many people asked me if I was excited about the "family reunion." I promptly answered, "No. Not at all." This was for 3 reasons: (1) I've been to Hawaii a number of times before and it just did not interest me anymore, (2) I don't usually enjoy tropical places and (3) I didn't know most of the extended family who were going.
My prediction of having a lousy time seemed to come true when I initially met up with my cousins, my cousins' cousins and my cousins' cousins' cousins. Upon greeting them with a smile and hearty "hello," I received apparently blank stares in return. Inside, I groaned to myself, "Oh great. This is going to be a very, very long week," fully expecting to finish reading the Harry Potter book within a day or two.
And when Hurricane Flossie hit Hawaii and we had to skip the port at Hilo, I felt with even more certainty that this trip would be terrible, especially because I'm prone to motion sickness.
But God had better plans for me.
Little things started happening to change my attitude and my perspective. I didn't get seasick at all. The aunts and uncles were all so kind and friendly. On the day we were stuck on ship, I shared a lunch of bad service, mediocre food and great company with the cousins. Little by little, I got to know the different cousins and saw how each of them is special in his/her own way. I enjoyed their quick humor and laughs.
The best part of the trip was going kayaking with the 14 other cousins in Kauai. We "ditched" the parents and grandparents for a kayaking and hiking trip up and down the Wailua River. I was so impressed by everyone. Even though some of them encountered difficulty in maintaining control of their kayaks, they persevered and eventually became pros. Everyone seemed to watch out for someone else so that everyone pretty much stayed together. Despite sore muscles, blisters and sunburn for most people, we all agreed that it was the best day of the trip.
By the end of the cruise, I was sad that it was over. I wished that I could stay longer in Hawaii with the rest of the family.
I'm so glad I was wrong. I built new friendships within my extended family.... which is an awesome thing because so many of them live in Canada where I will be moving to next week.
God, thank you for being bigger than my plans. Thank you for humbling me. Thank you for a great time in Hawaii.And I didn't even get halfway through with the Harry Potter book by the end of the trip.
"He must become greater, I must become less." (Matthew 7:17)